Mahabharata 12.277.20

स्वजनं हि यदा मृत्युर्हन्त्येव तव पश्यतःकृतेऽपि यत्ने महति तत्र बोद्धव्यमात्मना

svajanaṃ hi yadā mṛtyurhantyeva tava paśyataḥkṛte'pi yatne mahati tatra boddhavyamātmanā

Our plain-language meaning of this verse is waiting for scholar review.