Mahabharata 12.286.36
सान्त्वेनानुप्रदानेन प्रियवादेन चाप्युतसमदुःखसुखो भूत्वा स परत्र महीयते
sāntvenānupradānena priyavādena cāpyutasamaduḥkhasukho bhūtvā sa paratra mahīyate
Our plain-language meaning of this verse is waiting for scholar review.
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