Mahabharata 13.114.9

प्रत्याख्याने च दाने च सुखदुःखे प्रियाप्रियेआत्मौपम्येन पुरुषः समाधिमधिगच्छति

pratyākhyāne ca dāne ca sukhaduḥkhe priyāpriyeātmaupamyena puruṣaḥ samādhimadhigacchati

Our plain-language meaning of this verse is waiting for scholar review.